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09 Feb

Valentine’s Day in Korea

Valentine’s Day in Korea: A Softer, More Inclusive Take on Love

Valentine’s Day in Korea hits a little differently than it does back home. My first year here, I walked through convenience stores packed with pink packaging, heart-shaped chocolates, and themed gift boxes—it all felt familiar at first. But then I realized something important: Valentine’s Day in Korea isn’t really for everyone.

It’s specific. And once you understand how it works, the holiday becomes far more interesting—and way less pressure-filled.

How Valentine’s Day Works in Korea

In South Korea, Valentine’s Day is celebrated on February 14, but with a twist. Traditionally, women give gifts to men, most often chocolate. Men don’t give anything on this day—instead, they return the gesture one month later on White Day (March 14).

Once I learned this uniquely Korean tradition, everything clicked. The atmosphere is noticeably quieter than in North America. There’s less of the “everyone must be in love today” expectation and more of a subtle cultural rhythm that locals understand without making a big show of it.

What Valentine’s Day in Korea Is Like If You’re Single

Here’s the part I genuinely love: being single on Valentine’s Day in Korea is completely normal.

There’s no pressure to dress up, no awkward “So what are you doing tonight?” conversations, and no sense that the day is somehow incomplete without a partner. Most of my single friends treat it like any other day. Some grab dessert after work, others meet up for drinks, and some—myself included—buy themselves chocolate because, honestly, why not?

This year, Valentine’s Day falls on a Saturday, which also makes it a perfect excuse to go out to a bar or club and casually scope out other potential singles. Who knows? Love might be in the air.

And if clubbing isn’t your thing, no worries. Last year, I went to a café after work, ordered a slice of cake, and noticed that half the people around me were doing the exact same thing. Solo dates. Laptops open. Headphones in. My Valentine’s Day felt comforting rather than lonely.

A Valentine’s Day That Feels Softer

Compared to Canada or the U.S., Valentine’s Day in Korea feels far less performative. There are fewer grand public displays and less pressure to prove your relationship to the world. It’s quieter, more symbolic, and genuinely sweet in its understated way.

The holiday is also part of a trio of relationship-themed dates. After Valentine’s Day comes White Day (March 14), followed by Black Day (April 14), when single people traditionally eat jajangmyeon together. Whether you participate or not, it’s comforting to know there’s space for everyone.

Defining Valentine’s Day on Your Own Terms

Whether you’re coupled up, single, or somewhere in between, Valentine’s Day in Korea gives you permission to define the day for yourself. There’s no single right way to celebrate—and honestly, that might be my favorite part of all.

Michelle Duquette, Marketing Assistant

Michelle Duquette is from Toronto, Canada and moved to South Korea in 2015. She has a Bachelors in English literature and a Masters in ESL Education. Michelle has taught at Creverse campuses in Gangneung, Songpa, and Mokdong and currently works as a CDI and April Trainer. Michelle never set out to be a teacher but fell in love with Korean culture and the excitement of being in the classroom. Michelle lives in Seoul with her partner and two cats, Cherry and Frost.

20 Jan

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Heartbreak Remedies in Seoul: Self-Care Ideas for Healing Abroad

If you’re reading this, you may unfortunately be going through something many of us experience at some point in our lives: heartbreak. Or maybe you’re just reading out of curiosity. Either way, I hope these ideas inspire a little self-care during your time in Seoul.

Living abroad comes with incredible highs—but also emotional lows. Taking care of yourself, especially during heartbreak, is essential. Having gone through a couple of heartbreaks myself since moving to Seoul, I’ve gathered a list of healing activities you can enjoy alone or with friends.

Sing It Out at Noraebang (노래방)

All around Seoul—especially in restaurant districts, pocha streets, and nightlife areas—you’ll find noraebangs, or karaoke rooms. There are two main types: coin noraebangs and hourly noraebangs.

I usually choose coin noraebangs because there’s no pressure to pick songs quickly, and they’re incredibly affordable—about ₩3,000 (roughly $1.50) for six songs. Heartbreak often comes with lingering anger, sadness, or a need for closure. Singing your heart out is one of the best ways to release those bottled-up emotions.

24-Hour Ice Cream Stores and Convenience Stores

If your heartbreak is craving something sweet or savory, Seoul has you covered—literally 24/7. Unmanned ice cream stores, open around the clock, offer ice cream, snacks, meal kits, and sometimes even small slices of cake (which, in my opinion, is perfect heartbreak food).

The biggest perk? No staff and no judgment. You can walk in with a puffy face, grab whatever comforts you, and leave peacefully.

Convenience stores are also open 24 hours, though there are always people around. The upside is variety. One of my favorite comfort snacks is Yonsei cream bread from CU—a large, fluffy bread filled with cream (I always go for the chocolate version).

Pizza and Shopping in Myeongdong

This is the newest remedy on my list. Recently, I went to Myeongdong with a friend and vented about my most recent heartbreak over the best pizza I’ve had in a long time.

We ate at Myeongdong Pizza and ordered the Chipotle Legend Pizza—accurately named. Afterward, we wandered through nearby shops, including vintage stores, Playground, and Noonsquare Mall.

While the food and shopping helped, the most healing part of the day was spending time with a good friend who listened, supported me, and reminded me of my worth.

Running Along the Han River

If you’re someone who needs to run it out after heartbreak, the Han River is one of the best places in Seoul to do so. The river is lined with miles of paths used by walkers, cyclists, and runners.

No matter which park you start from, you’ll be greeted with beautiful river views and open skies. Moving your body while surrounded by scenery can be incredibly grounding during emotional times.

Hiking Around Seoul

I saved the best for last. For me, the most powerful way to heal heartbreak is through a perspective shift—reconnecting with myself and nature.

Seoul is surrounded by mountains, many of them accessible directly from the city. There are also stunning hiking spots just outside Seoul, all offering a range of trails from beginner-friendly to challenging. Hiking helps clear the mind, strengthen the body, and remind you how big and beautiful the world still is.

You can learn more about popular trails here:
https://aclipse.net/3-must-hike-trails-in-south-korea/

05 Nov

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Choose Your Own Adventure: Dating in Korea

If you’re reading this, chances are you’re curious about dating in Korea- whether you’re here to teach, travel, or just soak up K-drama energy in real life. You’ve probably seen memes about “Hongdae Boys” and swooned over K-drama leads, but what’s it really like to date here? Let’s dive into the real deal so you can navigate Korea’s dating scene with confidence.

1. Dating Apps in Korea: Your Easiest Starting Point 📱

If you want to start meeting people fast, dating apps are the still the way to go, especially in South Korea. The most popular ones for foreigners in Korea are Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder. Badoo and Noondate are the Korean variety.

Each app attracts different types of people, so it’s important to be clear about what you’re looking for- whether it’s a relationship, language exchange, or casual fun. As long as your goals align, you’ll have a great experience.

Another perk? Dating apps in Korea are a fantastic way to practice your Korean and meet people from around the world. You might find yourself chatting with someone from France, Turkey, or even South Africa- all while living in one of Asia’s most dynamic cities.

Safety Tip: Korea is generally a safe country thanks to CCTV and cultural norms, but always take precautions when meeting someone from an app.

2. Meeting People While Clubbing 🎶

If you enjoy nightlife, clubbing in Hongdae or Itaewon can be an exciting way to meet new people and experience Seoul’s vibrant social scene.

In Hongdae, you’ll notice a distinctive fashion trend often referred to as the “Hongdae Boy” look- think sleek all-black outfits, leather jackets, and a confident, creative energy that reflects the neighborhood’s youthful, artistic vibe.

Women in Hongdae often mirror this fashionable, trend-conscious spirit. You’ll see everything from chic minimalist outfits and monochrome streetwear to statement pieces paired with bold makeup or accessories. The overall aesthetic is effortlessly stylish yet expressive, blending individuality with Korea’s cutting-edge fashion culture.

In contrast, Itaewon has a more international feel, attracting both locals and expats with a diverse mix of styles. Fashion here ranges from casual and eclectic to sophisticated nightlife attire, depending on the venue.

Whether you’re dancing the night away or striking up a conversation over drinks, these nightlife districts are great for socializing. Just keep in mind that clubs in Korea tend to attract people seeking more casual connections rather than long-term relationships- something worth considering as you navigate the scene.

Safety Reminder: Always let your friends know where you’re going and who you’re with, especially if you decide to leave the club with someone new.

3. Old-Fashioned Romance: Meeting People in Real Life ☕

Traditionally, approaching strangers in public hasn’t been customary in Korea, as many people meet through mutual friends, school, or work. However, this is gradually changing- especially among younger generations who are becoming more open to casual conversations and spontaneous encounters.

For the bold and outgoing, try the classic approach- meet someone in broad daylight! Cafes in Korea can be prime spots for spontaneous connections.

If you spot someone cute and aren’t sure if they speak English, you can try saying:

“안녕하세요. 여자/남자친구 있어요?”
(Annyeonghaseyo. Do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend?)

It takes courage, but you’ve already proven your bravery by moving to Korea. Why not take one more step and ask for that number?

Have Fun And Be Safe 🌸

Dating in Seoul can be as thrilling and unpredictable as a K-drama. Whether you meet someone on an app, in a club, or at a cozy cafe, make sure your experiences are authentic, safe, and aligned with your own goals.

Remember: your time in Korea should be about growth, fun, and adventure- so enjoy every chapter of your Korea dating story.

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